Green flags, great dates and a long distance love story – Our most popular blog posts of 2025

With over 25 years of experience helping single Christians meet, we know the challenges that can arise, the questions daters ask and inspiring stories that emerge. Every week the Christian Connection blog covers a new topic to help support, encourage and equip for the dating journey. Here are the top five most popular blog posts of 2025, in reverse order…

#5 – Seven simple things to remember for a great first date

“First dates can feel exciting and daunting at the same time. The key is to find a way to keep your nerves at bay, to show up authentically and to be open, whilst practising healthy boundaries and being aware of the potential pitfalls. Having enjoyable and fruitful first encounters is achievable. Here are some simple things to remember before your next one…”

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#4 – Five helpful strategies for tackling dating fatigue

“It’s not unusual to get to the point of feeling tired by dating and the same old small talk – let’s call it dating fatigue. I became very disheartened after a few years of monotonous first dates, hearing the same chat-up lines, the same small talk, and explaining once again what I did for a living.

When feeling down and not seeing hoped-for progress, it’s natural that a change and a refresh are needed. However, that was the exact moment – in the midst of the dating valley – that I met my now husband. So, what are some of the most effective ways to tackle dating fatigue? Here’s what I learned…”

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#3 – Sending a second message? Here’s why a follow-up message could improve your chances of connection

“It’s normal to feel anxious about what the right etiquette is when it comes to sending messages, especially second messages. Everyone who has dated online has been there: you’ve seen an interesting profile, sent a thoughtful message, and now you’re waiting for a reply. A day goes by. Then another. Still nothing.

What now? Should you follow up? Is it polite? Is it pushy? Have they even seen your original message? The truth is, there’s no hard and fast rule, but there are ways you can increase your chances of getting a response…”

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#2 – “Online dating is the way forward” – Jodie & Steven, our Christian Connection story

“Jodie and Steven were living hundreds of miles apart when they first met on Christian Connection. Jodie had recently moved back to the UK and was living in West Sussex, and Steven was living in Scotland. Steven said, “I wanted to meet someone who was aligned with me spiritually and had the same mindset and same love for God as well as love for people. I wanted a godly woman.””

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#1 – Five more green flags that indicate your date is worth seeing again

“When we go on a date, we’re often looking for a spark or an instant connection, but chemistry can take time to develop. Dating is about gathering information and it’s important to give someone a chance, provided there are some behaviours in place, and you don’t spot any glaring red flags. Consistency and clear communication are two important signs it’s worth meeting again. What are more green flags to keep an eye out for?”